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And this is the kind of thing we should say to one another by the fireside in
winter-time, as we lie on soft couches, after a good meal, sipping sweet wines
and crunching chickpeas: ‘Of what land are you, and how old are you, good
Sir? And how old were you when the Mede appeared?’
Xenophanes, 6th century BC Greek philosopher and wanderer
As the year 2015 and with it, my 75th birthday, came into view, and as I watched
chunks of the world seemingly descend into Malthusian turmoil, even barbarism in
places, I needed hope. I decided to seek it in the lives of the philosophers, artists and
scientists I had admired for so long. I found that for some of them, the challenge to be
confronted had been almost continuous. That group included Socrates, Darwin and
Pasternak. For a few others, such as Boethius and Beethoven, darkness fell early. For
some of the remainder, such as Seneca, the great Stoic statesman of the Roman
Empire, the end arrived reasonably late, but it did so suddenly and brutally. Bertrand
Russell sought refuge from depression during the First World War in work and by
throwing himself into public affairs.
In writing this book, however, I feel that I owe the reader an explanation, for
except in the case of Omar Khayyām and, possibly, Bertrand Russell, I cannot
pronounce with any authority on the sages I have chosen to discuss. Perhaps how the
idea of the book came about will excuse my boldness.
The genesis of it lies in two events six years apart. The earlier spur occurred in
the late spring of 2003, when my wife and I were taking a short holiday abroad. After
an intense bout of activity which had sometimes meant my giving 30 or even more
interviews a day to broadcasters all over the world on the American-led invasion of
Iraq, I needed a rest, and so we flew to the Mani region of Greece, that ancient, well-
trodden land of the southern Peloponnese. But even there, I could not be quite idle.
The editor of the Literary Review in London had asked me to assess a new book by
the philosopher A. C. Grayling and so I had thrown that book into the holiday
luggage. The extent to which I fell under the spell of What is Good : The search for
the best way to live may perhaps be gleamed from the opening paragraph of my
review which appeared in the August edition of the magazine:
How appropriate that I should be reading this survey of ideas about ‘the
good life’ here in Greece, where the everyday philosophising of homo sapiens
was first raised to the level of formal discussion in academies and given the
name of philosophy. Furthermore, as you watch the local people with their
relaxed lifestyles, you cannot help but wonder on the qualities of the ideal life
yourself. In the hot afternoons, under the canopies of vines and mulberry trees,
young people whisper their own versions of eternal truths to each other over
glasses of beer and Kalamata olives (favourites of Herodotus), before going for
a long splash in the clear waters, while their elders take a snooze on a shaded
balcony or play backgammon (a Persian borrowing) in the alleyways.
The notes I made for the review, which remain lodged in the review copy,
include a couple of questions: Is it possible to have a reasonably good life in the face
of misfortune, loss or poor health, and is living a modestly good life justifiable if the
society around one is threatened by disaster? For ‘the good life’ has meant much more
to good men than ‘A flask of wine, a book of verse, and thou’.
Those two questions have always preoccupied me, right from my early
schooldays in a remote corner of Kurdish western Iran (coincidentally, wherefrom
Xenophanes’s Medes had hailed). In recent years, the latter question concerning
society has grown to haunt and torment me, often causing me sleepless nights, and I
know that I am not alone in such a predicament. Far from it. There must be hundreds
of millions of us watching our rudderless world drifting towards great new calamities.
Our increasing numbers put unprecedented pressure on the globe’s fragile eco-
system, and, closer to home, our most advanced, liberal societies become less liberal
to protect themselves against terrorists, within and without. It is easy to despair.
Under such circumstances, we may ask whether it is permissible morally to seek
a reasonably fulfilled personal life? The answer has to be ‘Yes’, and that, in fact, we
have a duty to pursue fulfilled lives. If we do not do so, if we do not have functional
private lives, how could we act in our public persona to combat those threats? The
question that arises next is: What kind of life could we permit ourselves under the
new circumstances of scarcity of resources. It could certainly not be one of rampant
consumerism.
The second spur came in 2009, when BBC Radio 4 asked me to write and
present an episode of a philosophical/spiritual programme that is broadcast on
Sunday mornings. The series is called Something Understood and has, under my old
colleague in the World Service of the BBC, Sir Mark Tully, become almost cult
listening to early risers. But Mark needs a rest every now and then and hence the
temporary need for second-bests.
They asked what subject I wished to address and, as my episode was going to be
broadcast in October, I chose to indulge in the metaphor of the fading light to speak
of the peace of mind that can be the fortune of most people in the autumn of their
lives. I had entered my 70th year by then and so, with the aid of an anthology of poems
and songs, the programme reflected merely my own state of mind as I looked back on
an eventful journey in a turbulent world.
It has to be said that the programme, which I subtitled The Consolations of
Autumn, did not quite achieve the effect intended. I wished it to lift the mood of the
older listener and lessen the fright of the younger as they contemplated their own
autumns. But some listeners, including a professor of international relations, wrote to
say that it had made them cry. I had made them think of the glory of their youths,
they said, and reminded them of the loss of their loved ones.
Looking back, this was perhaps inevitable. Despite my trying to be a rabble-
rouser, I had had to be realistic to be credible, and you cannot fool people into
believing that they can ignore completely the moaning and creaking of their ageing
limbs in later life. The most that can be achieved in the last third of our lives is aptly
described by Wordsworth:
Though nothing can bring back the hour
Of splendour in the grass, of glory in the flower;
We will grieve not, rather find,
Strength in what remains behind.
But what remains behind can still be worthy of celebration, both to the
individual and to his society. In fact, according to evolutionary psychologists, it
explains the longevity of us humans. The greater wisdom that has come to the old
shields society from the rushed judgements of its younger members. At the level of
the individual, too, the old sympathise more, condemn less, sparing them some of the
stress to which the young are subject. In the words of one of the heroes of this book,
the great philosopher and humanist Bertrand Russell, with whom I had the honour of
a little correspondence a few years after my arrival in Britain in 1959, an individual
human life ought to be like a river:
… small at first, narrowly contained within its banks, rushing
passionately past boulders and over waterfalls. Gradually the river grows
wider, the banks recede, the waters flow more quietly and, in the end, without
any visible break, they become merged in the sea and painlessly lose their
individual being.
Furthermore, we live far longer lives now, and remain healthier in our last
decades. In 1982, for example, there were 2560 centenarians in England and Wales.
Thirty years later in 2012, their number had more than quadrupled to 12,320. Such
startling changes in demographics almost never occurred before modern times.
Perhaps I should tell a personal story here to illustrate the point. In my Sussex
village in southern England, I formed a deep bond of friendship with a neighbour by
the name of Frank Bishop. He and I had seemingly little in common. He was a retired
builder who did not really enjoy leaving the village, except for occasional flights to his
seaside apartment in Minorca. I, on the other hand, had been brought up far away
and nowadays raised hats each week with Nobel laureates at my club in Pall Mall, was
a habitué of the National Theatre and dined regularly at the House of Lords – was in
fact on a committee there with former cabinet ministers and archbishops of
Canterbury. But we found that planning what vegetables to grow in the next season or
inspecting his hatchling chicks in the incubator he kept in his bedroom brought us
together as if we were two young boys.
Frank’s stooping, but always cheerful, figure was an inspiration to many in the
village and he took pride in the quality of his former work. As we walked to the shops,
or on occasion drove to our nearest town for a meal, he would point to a handsome
house here or there. ‘We done it’, he would say, with a broad smile. He was aware,
too, that he was lucky to be alive. He had served as a gunner in the freezing rear
turrets of Wellington bombers in World War II and had mourned many of his young
comrades who did not return.
This idyll continued till April 2011, when, one day, I put together a tray of fresh
bread and cheeses with half a bottle of wine to take over to his house to share with
him for lunch. I also wanted to tell him that we planned a dinner for him and his
companion, Anne, to celebrate his coming 90th birthday. But I could not find him in
the house and gave up, assuming that he had gone to the chicken enclosure at the
bottom of his three-acre garden to collect the morning’s eggs. Several hours late,
when I went over again and he would not answer my calls, I found him dead in one of
the rooms.
Now, Frank would normally have died a dozen years earlier. He had had a heart
attack and doctors had inserted a simple pace-maker in his chest. As a result, he had a
full life as an individual and brought great happiness to his children and
grandchildren, as well as to his friends. Indeed, the legacy of his good life continues.
Anne and his son Roger and his family have all become good friends of ours and I do
not mind admitting that when I go for an occasional visit to his grave in the village
cemetery, where he is buried beside his parents and siblings, I talk to him. I tell him,
for example, how our fig trees are performing, or of the health of his bees which
continue to give us a wonderful harvest of golden honey each year.
The fact alone, that Frank’s long and fulfilled life is no longer a rarity, is one
good reason to be grateful for the scientific, social and political progress that some
parts of the world have achieved in recent times. Most of us can look forward to
several more decades of active life, when the great majority of even the most recent of
our ancestors could not.
The examples of sages I have chosen to illustrate the debate about the good life
from the early classical times to the present are almost exclusively secular
freethinkers. This is for the obvious reason that men of strong faith – at least in those
faiths that are centred on a personal creator – are not particularly preoccupied by life
as we know it. They are lucky. They believe, as my own late father did, that a better
life awaits them after death. Furthermore, had I chosen any men and women who
were primarily motivated by their creeds, even secular creeds such as communism,
the result would have been of less interest to the average citizen of the liberal societies
of the West today, precisely the kind of people who might come across this book. Our
age is one of widespread doubt, so much so that the churches have reformed some of
their core doctrines – such as Creation - not to appear at odds with the findings of
scientists, especially geologists, biologists, physicists and astronomers.
The examples I have chosen were also, more or less, involved in the public
affairs of their communities. Hedonists are deeply alien to the innate social nature of
the great bulk of humanity and, for that reason, they usually sink into obscurity when
their parasitic lives come to an end, leaving them not to be missed even by their
relatives. One reason why I spent years researching the life of Omar Khayyām, the
eleventh century poet, scientist and deeply serious thinker, was to rescue him from
the undeserved reputation that a selective – though wonderful – translation of his
tavern poems had acquired for him here in the West. The same reasoning explains my
inclusion of Epicurus among my luminaries here. He has had his image distorted
even more radically than has poor Khayyām.
It may well be asked what possible benefit could we derive in this scientific age
from ‘the wisdom’ of ancient men whose thinking could be described as leaping in the
dark. Without any doubt, some of that ‘wisdom’ would cause laughter among today’s
primary school children. Some, such as the great Socrates, seeing the contradictory
claims of their ‘natural philosophy’ colleagues, denounced science as useless to the
serious problem of living, while others, such as Epicurus, made new claims of their
own regarding the natural world. But it remains true that they were among the
greatest minds who have ever walked upon the surface of this wonderful planet of
ours and they were brilliant observers of human behaviour. Their ethics have thus
volumes to teach us, and their valiant efforts to keep themselves and those around
them sane in the face of general ignorance, war and pestilence can still inspire us.
That is why I have chosen them. We can make allowances for their believing, for
example, that the sun was a hot rock the size of mainland Greece, while benefiting
from their thinking regarding the good life.
I have given the middle section of the book over to an anthology of poems to
console us for loss, and to remind us that great good can still lie ahead.
Poems can convey, even if indirectly, a philosophy of life in miniature, with the
additional attraction of invoking beauty, love, longing, etc, to speak to our hearts. The
rational half of our brains is only half of our story. The other part, the sentimental
half, needs to be nurtured just as fully to make what remains of our tenure of
consciousness worthwhile. In the poets, in the best of the poets, cold, reasoned
philosophy combines with passionate love to take us closer to the sense of the divine
that most of us have now lost. I have arranged this selection of distilled wisdom
according to their theme for easier navigation in future returns to them.
Part three of the book is a brief meditation on the possessions, mental and
physical, that enable me to live what I believe to be a fortunate existence. It is not an
extravagant list. In the affluent societies of the industrialised world, most people can
afford a variance of it to satisfy their own particular needs and preferences. What is
not in doubt is that for us to have peace of mind and enjoy our later years requires a
certain minimum standard of material comfort, companionship, culture and
entertainment, as well as, of course, a reasonably good health. The good life has
never, in the opinion of the wisest sages, been about hair shirts and penance.
Finally, in an appendix, I have included a series of autobiographical talks,
originally entitled Kurd’s Eye View that BBC Radio 4 asked me to broadcast in 1998. I
should normally have been reluctant to speak about myself. I am particularly so now,
now that I am older and no-longer enamoured of praise and fame. But the talks are
largely about public affairs and about a rare and unexpected journey from a remote
agricultural backwater to the heart of London, arguably the most influential city in all
history. When the talks were first broadcast, the newspapers assessed them
generously, and so they may be of amusement to readers today. Furthermore, they
shed a little light on the man who has put the selection together. It is always useful to
know from where the teller of a particular story hails. In this case, he hails from
ancient Media.